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How to become a member of Bride-Forever

FREE Trial - when you finally decide to create a profile on our site, the free trial is an automatic function for you. It is free and it gives you the opportunity to view ladies' profiles and to get letters from them but not to answer them. Also, chat function is unavailable for you until you purchase credits.

If you have already made a decision to become a happy person using our Service, the first step for you will be to create your personal profile. Remember, your profile is like your portrait in words as girls could find something about you even not talking to you yet. To begin creating your profile, please click on the "Join Now" link at our site, bride-forever.com. And don't hesitate to upload some of your best photos! Girls are waiting for their gentlemen!

While filling up your profile, you should remember some important things:

  1. We need to know your first and last name. If you decide to use a pseudonym, it is ok (we understand if our clients want to keep their identities private), but we won't accept nonsense names, i.e. wxz123, or celebrity names. It is forbidden!
  2. We hope that you remember that our eyes could make us be in love with somebody from the first sight. So don't forget about your photo! It's your best card;) Sorry, but photos of cartoons, nature scenes, and any other photos where there is no you, are not accepted. And, please, remember that we are not a porn site, so please, no nude photos.
  3. Contact information is only allowed in the appropriate areas, including ONLY the areas that request your email address or phone number. Please be advised that your contact information will be deleted if added in inappropriate areas.
    The request for contact information is valid for 7 days. If you didn't replenish your balance during this time, your request will be declined automatically.
  4. Our site was created for love and joining hearts but not for profanity or vulgarity. If we find these disgusting things in your personal profile, it won't be activated in any way.
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Billing System / Tariffs

Bonus - First Letter - what is it?

All incoming letters are absolutely free!
Considering a first bonus letter, the cost of one outgoing letter will be 9 credits. If you bought the standard package, one letter cost will be from 10 to 9 credits. Detailed information you could see below.

During communication with one partner, the cost of an outgoing letter lowers gradually according to the pricing plan which you can find below:

The first letter (bonus) is FREE! (If you buy any package, except the standard package - "30 CREDITS").
Next 9 letters will cost you 10 credits each.
After the 10th letter, each letter will cost you 9 credits.
Outgoing letter price is calculated for each conversation partner separately.

Live Chat costs 1 credit per minute for all members.
Using video chat (CamShare) costs additional 2 credits per minute. It includes video stream delivery from you to a lady or from a lady to you or both directions simultaneously.
Requesting contact information of a single lady costs 200 credits - More Details.
Watching video from a lady's profile costs 10 credits.

What cards are accepted on your website?
We accept Visa, MasterCard, American Express, Maestro and other local payment solutions such as iDeal and DIRECTebanking, i.e. SOFORT bank collection from all over Europe.

I am not sure that it is safe to Make Purchases on Your Site?
The only answer that we can say - “Definitely Yes”.
We have a secure certificate that guarantees our site is protected. Latest technology ensures that all information is encrypted. The information is encrypted and cannot be retrieved for future use by anyone else except you. Also, all payments go through bank protection. When you make a payment on our site, you go to the page of a bank and there you enter data of your credit card. All information is shown only to a bank. We don't see it and accordingly can't save it.

Refund
We are responsible for providing email services, chat and Live Video for our members. Therefore, we can not be responsible for the costs of using our site if:

1. You change your mind about the lady and prefer to talk to someone else.
2. She changes her mind about you and wants to talk to someone else.
3. You get in an argument and are no longer interested.<

However, if you believe that this or that girl is not genuine, or you have technical problems that have depleted you of your credits, please, contact us immediately. After clarifying the circumstances your lost credits will be returned to your account.

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Understanding your home page

A menu on the left:
  • LIVE CHAT - Enter Chat Room
  • Inbox - Your Inbox Messages
  • Sent - Your Sent Messages
  • Deleted - Your Deleted Messages
  • My Favorite Ladies - Ladies that you added to Favorite List
  • Search - transfer to a powerful tool to search for your pair. Click on the link, enter the necessary information and get the desired result.
  • Online Ladies - girls who are on the site at this moment.
  • Apartment and Tour - details about proposed apartments and tours
  • Purchase credits - credits for use within the site
  • Finance Data - Your Billing Information (not required)
  • Finance Statistics - report on expended funds
  • Settings - Email Preferences
  • My Profile - link to your profile from any page on the site
  • My Dates - list of confirmed dates
  • Log Out- Exit Button
Top menu in your profile:
  • Change Password - link for changing your password. We recommend to change it at least once a month.
  • View My Profile - this function will give you an opportunity to view your profile as other girls could see it
  • Edit My Profile - changing of your personal information in your profile
  • Add/Change My Photos - page for changing, editing, adding and deleting your photos and avatar
  • Add/Change My Videos - page for changing, editing, adding and deleting your personal videos
  • Set email notifications about new messages - email preferences
  • De-activate My Profile - Link to deactivate your profile
  • View Gift Delivery Status - View delivery status of sent gifts
  • Request Contact Email for Travel Tour and View Status of My Travel Tour Requests - transfer to the form of sending messages to the administrator. Describe everything you need and we will contact you shortly.
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Sending and Receiving letters

What Is An Introductory Letter and Why I get them if I have an empty profile?

Introductory letters are the first letter that is written to the lady members introducing yourself to them. That is why this letter is very important! It could help you to get a new friend or a lady of your heart!;)
Every lady has her personal introductory letter where she writes about herself.

How could I begin to communicate with a girl that I like on your website?

The first step for you will be to create your personal profile. Then, you will have to sign up for any membership which will allow you to communicate with the ladies through our site's messaging system as well as write them directly using credits. And, of course, don't forget about Live Video Chat and Live Video Streaming. It could help your communication to reach the best results.

Why did not all girls whom I sent emails to answer my letters?

Maybe it will be sad news for you, but we can't guarantee and we are sure that anyone else could do it that you will get a response from all the ladies that you liked. We can't force anyone to answer if he or she does not want to as it comes to the "matters of the heart". However, we sincerely hope that your relationships will work in any way! Everything depends on you and your wish to be the happiest person in the world! Your happiness is our highest purpose!

How Many Photos Can I Attach When Writing Emails to the Ladies?

Sorry, but only 1 photo or 1 attachment could be sent in 1 letter. If I decide to write a letter to a Lady who doesn't speak English, how could she read my letter? Be sure that all girls who can't speak English read your letters. All of them have their own interpreters who help them to translate these letters. And if a lady wants to write back to you, she tells her interpreter what to write in Russian and that girl translates her thoughts to English.

I don't understand if I should read all of the Messages the Ladies Have Sent to Me?

It is quite difficult to give advice on this matter as it depends totally on your wish. We completely understand your desire to read and perhaps answer all of the emails you receive. But remember that it costs you money to answer each letter. And that is why we don't suggest you contact ladies who you're not interested in.

My Lady is Chatting with Other Guys Also. Why?

Please try to understand ladies on our website. There are hundreds of profiles on our site and each of these girls desires to find her real love! Please understand that it would be unethical for us to disclose chatting activity or any activity of our female or male members to other members on our site. But be sure if you both like each other, you will find what to do in this situation and your hearts will tell you both about it... ;)

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Request for contact information

Before requesting a lady’s contact information, ask her if she is willing to provide her contact information to you.

If you have already written 15 letters to a lady, you can request a lady’s contact information. It will cost 200 extra credits. The lady’s contact information includes her phone number and email address.

The procedure of requesting a lady’s contact information is very simple: open the lady’s profile and find the menu item "My contacts".

Then click on this button, confirm your intention to receive the lady’s contact information, and your request will automatically be sent to the site administration. Within 72 hours you will receive the contact information.

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Instructions about using of video chat

Step 1

By default, the video capabilities are collapsed. To expand the video interface you need to click this "Webcam" button in the upper right corner of the chat window.

Step 2

In the interface that appears, to turn on your web camera, click the button under your profile picture and allow the browser to use your webcam. Your profile picture will be replaced by your webcam stream.

Later, to turn off your webcam, click the button over your own picture.

Step 3

To be able to make a video call, you need a text chat to be active. Therefore, start a text chat with your interlocutor.

Step 4

For a video call, there are usually two options: either you want to use your webcam and show yourself, or you just want to see your partner.

1. If you want to show yourself, just turn on your webcam and make a call. Even if your partner does not have her/his webcam enabled, you can still call after a little warning from our system and confirmation from your side for a one-way video call.

2. If you don't want to show yourself or don't have a webcam, you still can make a video call if your partner has a webcam enabled. Otherwise, if both you and your partner do not have a webcam enabled, the video call will be automatically rejected by the system.

To make a call, click the "Start video" button below your partner's profile picture. You will see a popup indicating that the call is awaiting an answer. Here you can also cancel the call by hitting the red button.

Step 5

To finish the video chat, you can click any of the two "Stop video" buttons: below your partner's profile picture or next to the "Stop chat" button.

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Instructions about video chat and live chat

To members who use browser Internet Explorer: According to the fact that browser Internet Explorer doesn't support many modern functions and plugins, we advise you to change your IE browser to anyone from this list: Google Chrome, Mozilla Firefox, Opera, Safari and other.

If a chat interface is too dark or bright for you, you could change its design. When you enter a chat, there are two buttons in the center of the page- Light and Dark. According to these buttons, chat changes its design.

A video chat works in a one-way and a double-side way

A fee is charged for a single tariff no matter one webcam works (one-way video chat) or two (double-side video chat).

According to that fact that users could be on different continents while having a video chat, we can't guarantee a stable communication channel. It doesn't connect with the quality of our provided service.

Breaking actions and lags could appear because of the quality of the channel of Internet provider of your companion or yours.

Before the beginning of a video chat, please, ask your partner if he/she has a webcam and if it works correctly. If a webcam doesn't begin its work during the next 2 minutes, cancel broadcasting.

Brief instruction of live chat using

To start a chat, you should choose a lady on the left column - "users online" and press on the lady’s photo or name. After this, the lady will appear in your contact list. Move your mouse to the lady’s name in the contact list and click 1 time. The block will change color yellow to blue. Now you could write a message to a lady. As soon as the lady answers you, the withdrawal of your credits will begin. If you want to finish a chat, you should press a button "End" in the column of the contact list. If you don't press this button, after 5 minutes a chat will be closed automatically. The "End chat" or "Stop chat" button appears when a paid chat session is started.

"End chat" button in the Live Chat

"Stop chat" button in the Private Chat

The features of Live Chat and Private Chat

You will be paying for chat session only if you answer to a lady or if she answers to you in return. If during 5 minutes of chat you don't communicate with a lady anymore, this chat will be finished automatically.

It could be such a situation: a lady sent to you a message in chat but you were able to respond to her only after a long time ago. It could happen that at that moment when you finally decide to answer her, she won't be ready to write you back. In this situation, we recommend to you immediately after writing a message to a lady to press button "End" to finish this chat. In this case, you will pay only 1 credit for 1 minute of chat instead of 4-5 ones.

Another example: you sent the first message in the chat to the lady, but she answered you in 3 minutes. In this case, the chat transaction opens from the 3rd minute. If you do not answer a lady within the remaining two minutes, the chat will be automatically closed and 2 credits will be charged from your balance. To avoid such charges, after writing an invitation to a chat, be ready to wait 5 minutes until the lady answers your message.

Before using video chat ask a lady if she has a web camera. It will help you to save your credits.

The "End chat" or "Stop chat" button appears when a paid chat session is started.

Pop-up messages

When a lady writes a message to you in chat, you could see her invitation to chat with you in the lower right corner. You could hide these invitations pressing a button "Minimize"

If you want to fully activate these pop-up messages with invitations to chat again, please, press a button "Maximize".

The rates for video and live chat

  • Live Chat costs 1 credit per minute for all members.
  • Video chat will cost additional 2 credits per minute.
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Gifts

I like a girl and I want to make her happy. Do you have a gift service?

Of course, we have a gift service. We have everything for your productive communication with that girl that you like. Men all over the world know that girls are crazy about gifts and there is nothing better if you want to show her your attention and intention to her.
To send a gift you need to enter a girl’s profile and click “Send a Gift”. Then choose the gift you want from the list of gifts. You can write some warm words or congratulations on a holiday etc. in a new window which will appear with the gift. Then click ”To continue”.

How long should I wait till my special lady receives a gift from me?

Sometimes, gifts are delivered right away. But sometimes the delivery of your gift may depend on several factors. For these reasons, please allow up to 10 days for gift deliveries. When a girl receives your gift, we will send you a confirmation. But if 10 days passed and you did not still receive a confirmation, please contact us.

What guarantees I have that the Gift I Purchased Will Be Delivered?

Maybe it could make you sad but, unfortunately, we can not guarantee gift deliveries. Or in other words, we can not guarantee whether or not the lady will receive her gift. There are some situations when we can't contact a girl for a long time and in this way, the gift purchase is eventually cancelled. But don't worry about your money! All credits spent on the gift is returned to your account. Another situation when we won't be able to deliver your present to your special lady personally when a girl lives in the area of the main city that she mentioned in her profile. In this situation, a present will be delivered to a lady by another express service.

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Good advice for you

Love symbols

What do you know about love symbols? Love symbols profoundly assist us in describing the often elusive emotion that consumes us when considering love itself. When we think of love, dream about it, we can easily become overwhelmed by its vastness. Love symbols help us get a small part of what love means so that as we grow, our comprehension of love may also grow.

Love symbols take us on a journey of expression. When we focus on a particular symbol, we gain deeper knowledge and are able to express ourselves in the arena of love more clearly.

Do you know how to use love symbols?

If you desire more love in your life, dream about the warm feeling inside of you or wish to see more love in the lives of your close relatives and friends - all you need to do is focus upon the energy of love. The following suggestions will help you connect with the energy of love and will open up the opportunities of love to flow to you:

  • Choose a love symbol that resonates with you.
  • Put this image in a prominent place where you can see it the most time of your day
  • Meditate with this symbol - contemplate every detail and feel the energy of love
  • Invoke this symbol just before sleeping, and again upon waking.
  • Make a love journal. Write all the feelings/images your love symbol conjures up in your mind and heart. Put the image of your love symbol in your journal.
  • Most importantly, try to keep your symbol in your thoughts all the time. Never waiver from its beauty and purity. You should be always remained positively focused on your highest idea of love.

Make all these activities like a daily ritual (for example, brushing your teeth). And very soon you will begin to observe amazing changes in your life. Most assuredly, love will begin to make a more prominent appearance in your life.

Here we found the most common but at the same time amazing love symbols for you:

Apple:

It's a symbol of ecstasy, fertility, and abundance as well as love, the Apple is a testimony to the adage "big things (or meanings in this case) come in small packages." At her wedding to Zeus, Gaia supplied Apples to Hera signifying long love and union. Dionysus, the Greek god of wine, offered Apples to woo Aphrodite and win her love. Split apart, the Apple conjures an image of a vulva, signifying feminine love and beauty.

Harp:

The Harp is a symbol of love in the form of lyrical art, poetry, and music. The Harp shares mythical connections to the Celts representing the bridge of love. The Celts believed that it connects Heaven and Earth. In Norway and Iceland, Harpstrings formed a ladder symbolizing the ascent to higher states of love and pathways leading to paradise. King David played the Harp to the Lord to express his devotion and love.

Ribbons, Laces, and Frills:

Don't you know that ribbons and frills have been associated with romance since the days of knighthood? A knight was riding into the battle with a ribbon on his scarf given him by his fairy lady. The dictionary states that the word "Lace" comes from a Latin word. It means to "snare" or "noose". Many hundred years ago, one beautiful woman dropped her laced handkerchief hoping that a man picked it up and gave it to her. Thus, she wanted to attract his attention to encourage romance. If you notice, chocolate boxes and valentine cards are also decorated with lace.

Cupid:

I think everyone on our Earth knows who Cupid is, but I am not sure that everyone knows what his name means. Cupid was one of the gods of mythology, son of Venus. In Latin, the word Cupid means "desire." Cupid is typically represented as a chubby, naked, winged boy or youth with a mischievous smile. He possessed a bow with a quiver of arrows by which he transfixed the hearts of men and women.

Heart:

The heart symbol is likely the most common symbol for love and certainly the most recognizable among others. Magicians and Alchemists used the Heart symbols for incantations pertaining to matters related to love and romance. They were also used in rituals with a goal to strengthen relationships. The Heart has long been recognized across cultures as being a symbol for charity, joy, and compassion. Also an emblem of truth, the "Sacred Heart" of Christ is also the focus of Roman Catholic worship as a symbol of the Lord's love. As a graphic representation of an inverted triangle, this symbolizes a vessel in which love is poured or carried.

Maple Leaf:

In China and Japan, the Maple Leaf is an emblem of lovers. But talking about North American settlers, they used to place the Maple leaves at the foot of their beds to ward off demons and encourage sexual pleasure as well as peaceful sleep. Also in the North American region, the stork can be observed weaving Maple branches in nests Maple leaves serve as a love symbol as they depict the sweetness and wonder of love in everyday life.

Shell:

You can be surprised and ask why a shell is a love symbol. We can answer: because of its hard casing, the Shell is a protective image - protecting life (sheltering pearls) and also symbolizes the protective quality love sometimes takes. In Roman mythology, Venus, the goddess of love, was said to be created from the foam carried ashore atop a scallop shell. The Hindu goddess Lakshmi was said to also be created from the grit and pearls within the shell. Also in Hinduism, the conch shell is symbolic because it awakens the heart of the faithful and calls to those who live with heart-filled love.

And, of course, Rose:

It’s the perfect love symbol because it represents all things sensual, sacred, pure and romantic. In ancient Greece and Rome, the rose was sacred to Aphrodite (Venus) and was her emblem of beauty - it was said to grow from the blood of Adonis. In Western traditions, Rose was a symbol of passion, desire, voluptuousness, and physical perfection. The Rose is also connected to the goddess Hecate, Dionysus, and the three Graces.

Roses - The Loving Heart of Humanity

The meaning of colors

  • Red Roses - Love, Respect, Desire. If you decide to present a single red rose, you will say in this way: "I am crazy in love with you. Be my lady".
  • Pink Roses - Love, Grace, Loveliness, Perfect Happiness. A single pink rose means simply "I love you".
  • Dark Pink Roses - If you choose this color of rose, you are ready to say "Thank you for all".
  • Pale Pink Roses - Grace, Joy, Admiration.
  • White Roses - This color has lots of meanings...You're Heavenly, Reverence, Humility, Youthfulness, Innocence, Charm, Secrecy, Silence.
  • Pink and White - These roses together mean "I love you still and always will"
  • Yellow Roses - Some people believe that this color symbolizes separation but it is not true. This color of the Sun and sunny happy days when a person wants to say “Remember me”, “Stay with me forever and your life will be so tender and light like these flowers”
  • Yellow and Red - If you want to congratulate somebody with something very special, it is the best choice of mixing these colors.
  • Bridal Rose Bouquet - Girls, remember! If your man presents you with such a bouquet, he is really happy with you! He feels a real happy love!!!
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Is this Love?

Emotions

Do you know what happens when you fall in love? When the Cupid strikes, love bytes! You begin to feel lovebugs inside your stomach or love blues or just an affair of the heart! But no matter what it is, it’s the reason to live! It enters gently into your heart without any announce and changes a life forever! Love is timeless. It’s the memory of yesterday, the happiness of today and the promise of tomorrow. It brings new dimensions in life that makes everything seem worthwhile. And then, when there is hope, there is faith, when there is faith, there is love and when there is love, miracles happen! We all should believe in Miracles!

Love is filled with passion, intimacy, and commitment. Passion could fade away but intimacy and commitment are the two sides of a coin. Love peps up or pops out, depends on the emotions of the heart. Free souls dive into eight ways the Sternberg phycological way to find what is Love!

Non Love - It usually happens in our lives when none of the components like passion, intimacy or commitment is there. This is when we interact with people but don’t feel either of any.

Liking - There is intimacy but no commitment. Passion here has no place whatsoever. This happens with close friends.

Infatuation - This is like a kind of attraction where passion is really high but people don’t feel any intimacy or love or commitment. It is due to beauty or characteristics. This kind of love we could meet very often among us.

Empty Love - It is a very sad kind of love but we think that it is a sick kind of this bright feeling. Some people are only committed. They stay together for the sake of something and there is no intimacy, no love, no passion nor secrets to share.

Romantic Love - Its bubbling emotions within and commitment follow later if the love doesn't die away soon. We should remember that love is also a great work.

Compassionate Love - The right way to live, to our mind, is to feel this kind of love. Some people have commitment and intimacy and live together for years without touch but care, share, enjoy.

Fatuous Love - We think that this love has much in common with Empty love. There is no intimacy between two people and lack the understanding of knowing each other. They feel they don't like each other but stay yet together.

Consummate Love - This love gives a reason to live. It possesses passion, intimacy, and commitment! Just like 'Made for each'.

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